Sam2, if someone is trying to pick an argument then they would start such a post. There is nothing wrong with men helping at home even if women don’t go out to earn the big bucks. And there is nothing wrong with women helping their husbands with what is normally their chores to do if that is what works in their marriage. Obviously you are an intelligent person and you realize this. However, others who wish to tell people what to do, or be a bit smarmy wish to define what women should expect and NOT expect their husbands to do because after all women would NOT do “these” jobs…
Again, what works in each individual marriage defines what works in each individual marriage and it is no one’s business to butt into what works for others. So maybe because it is chodesh Elul the mods might consider closing this foolish thread.