I didn’t say that girls should learn if their motivations are pure. However, I think that when he says ?? ??? ???? ???? ????? ???? ????? ???? ???? he is specifically referring to ???????. It doesn’t really make sense to say that there is a correlation between impure intentions and ???? ????. He is saying that there is a situation (“?? ??? ????”) in which ???? ?????. Meaning that not in this situation there is not ???? ????? (or at least not ???? ???? ?????). While there is no reason why impure motivations should cause ??????, it is very logical that ?????? should cause ??????.
Also, it does seem from “??? ??????? ????? ?? ?? ??? ??? ????” that he is assuming that it is possible for us to judge each individual girl.
So I’m not sure that we’re really arguing.
Just wait for my next post for that.