anonymisss: If someone hurt me (and it has happened before) Im usually upset at them for a bit but then after a few hours I forget about it, but thats also just how I am I rarely stay upset at someone for more than a few hours.
It also gets annoying when the person keeps apologizing repeatedly, but at the same time you kind of want it and it feels good when the person does it.
I would suggest immediatly after you hurt her you should apologize once or twice. Then wait for the next day and try to talk about it. If she doesnt seem intrested try to push it a bit, but if she still doesnt seem intrested just drop it. Wait a few more days and then try again by that point she should have cooled down enough.
Everyone hurts someone at some point. Sometimes it is even necessary.