So if he makes 80 and the wife makes 50-80 also, they should both be fine no? I know these families are surviving somehow. I dont know if its pre or post taxes, he only told me he makes 80.
I find it troubling how some people view it as either learn torah and let the wife support you or get a job and support your wife and only learn an hour or 2 a day. Why cant it be a little of each?