I often hope that some of the comments I find are actually jokes and the purpose is to get a rise out of people.
Here is a mitzvah, hachnosas Kallah, which is listed as ochail pairosahem b’olam hazeh v’hakeren kayemes l’olam haboh. A mitzvah of chesed based according to the Rambam on v’ahavta l’raacha kmocha THE Klal gadol baTorah. Who is Patur from that? Who would want to run away and avoid that?
Does anyone think that hachnosas kallah is just for showing up to the chasunah?