Such narishkeitin and shtus! Be happy and thankful for what you have,not what you don’t have.
Years ago, while in an elevator in the building that i worked in, someone commented that she dyed her hair blonde because she thought she would have more fun and it really did not help! It happens to be that in our family many of us are blonde or blonde shades with blue eyes and we ourselve B”H don’t focus on it.
i for one will make sure to spread this to my family that no one should end up with a fake person and heartache!