Sacrilege
I don’t have you all figured out not by a long shot. Clearly one can’t judge a person by their comments on the forum because one ends up with a very skewed picture. Actually, in your case I think if I met you Id actually realize I know nothing about you.
Its special that you have that bond with your grandfather. Really, not everyone is zoche to that. At least my grandfather lived near us so I saw him often. (Of course now that he isn’t here I still feel like I didn’t spend enough time with him. Oy now I’m in I miss Zaidy mode…)
Amen that he should live ad meah veesrim.