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If you keep 613 mitzvos, including kiddushah, you’ll get married very young. If you think there’s only one mitzvah – learning – as many seem to approach it – then you’ll likely wait.
Last I heard there are 613 mitzvos.
— MTAB
Sorry, I didn’t understand your post. Firstly, which mitzvah is “Kiddushah” (Kiddush Levana? Kiddush on Shabbos? Vekidashto on a Kohein?)? Secondly, you seem to think that whatever mitzvah you are referring to is more important than Limmud Hatorah. Why are the two mutually exclusive? (Sorry I can’t back myself up more, but I really don’t understand what you’re talking about!) Surely one can be mekayem both of them by getting married as late as possible for optimal results?
Are you denying the fact that there is an allowance to get married late in order to learn ?????? ????, without the ??? of Parnassah on your head? Because the Gemara brings such a tzad, and there is a huge controversy in the Poskim/Rishonim exactly what the conclusion is, so why are deciding that early marriage is more important?