Reply To: Girl getting back to the shadchan

Look, it’s my parents’ general practice to try to get back within 24 hours. However, sometimes no one calls back, or they hear something that concerns them and they want to check it out more. They will always let the shadchan know that they are still checking- just so that the boy’s family isn’t kept completely hanging.

The problem is, when this stretches past 48 hours, my parents are stuck: they’re really not sure if it’s k’dai for me to go out with this boy (I don’t mean over something petty, but something genuinely concerning), but they can’t get a clear answer and the boy’s side is waiting.