Such a farbrente feministic outlook is very unhealthy going into a marriage. The divorce rate has gotten terribly high r’l, and this is a large factor why.
i come from a place were i believe it would great if all kids were raised by stay at home mom’s and no feminist ideals have ever attracted me. With that premise i have to say that there is very little more unhealthy to a marriage than that attitude of yours. And as damaging as it is (yes, is) to a wife and relationship, it is even more damaging to people who read it on public forums and think that you are speaking from a Torah perspective.
Feminism may not be right, but your views aren’t either.