moish I have to give you this one and tell you it sounds to me that youre describing a very, girly, girl. no matter what anyone tells you, everyone has their own pekela. about the second question, both people are doing what G-d intended for them to do on this world, not the next guy, them. when its time for the next world, the guy who got everything good asks if its fair, if he had the chance to accomplish great things, no one ever told him just how great it was.
ames I think your idea for a thread is a completely lost cause.
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