kapusta, thanks. I thought I was being so nice on Friday and I went to visit someone that I know. I knew she would be so happy if I came so I really went out of my way to go to her. Anyway, she starts talking about this and I said could we please not discuss it. She just had to show me how much she knew about it and I was so so so upset. I left in tears.
aussie, I like what you said about using guilt. It makes a lot of sense. Is what I said to the girl called using guilt? I didn’t think so and I really hope not. About trust, yes, I very strongly believe that no relationship can survive without a solid foundation of trust TOGETHER with respect. and smiles are smiles, they always work, as long as you’re not trying too hard to be nice. Just be normal. I was on that side of the story not that long ago and that’s why I can relate to her.
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