DR set? You’re kidding, right? My son was in 5th grade before we got a DR set.
Wanna know another secret? We did’nt get a BR set until 2 years afer the wedding. We got mattress/boxspring and linen on day one, and the basic linen set (not the $200-$400 sets they sell today, either).
And my down pillow / ducheneh? Thats swimming along in the pond, securely attached to the back of the duck.