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There have been many tzadikim, i personally knew one who knew the entire shas and was well respected, he did sponga every week before or after shabbos to help his wife. he was an alte mirrer in shanghi and despite the many hardships and his pitching in he made it to very great heights in torah and he had exemplary derech eretz, so i would think the tzadikl can pitch in a bit too