Joseph: I have to review some things in Hilchos Kesubos. I thought that the Minhag nowadays is that it’s assumed that the man was Mochel Maaseha Yadeha but still gives Mezonos.
This statement: “S”A doesn’t obligate a husband to provide his wife mezonos to reach “her living expectations”, especially when he cannot afford it.” is against a B’feirush Gemara.
And, according to you, why doesn’t a Kesubah create a Get Meuseh? The whole reason is to penalize him if he gives a Get. That’s a B’feirush Gemara.