old man -“To me it is obvious that hair/dressing/talking like goyim is a dynamic issur that changes its nature and scope depending on time, place and cultural norms and expectations. In my opinion, one has to have real intent to “be like a goy and not like a Jew” in order to transgress. The Chochmas Adam emphasizes the intent here and not a specific action.”
Well actually the Chochmas Odom does get into detail and doesn’t really emphasize intent. Look it up inside and then come post why you don’t think it applies.