Cut off all family contact. Move to a new city. Don’t let any anchor weigh your ship down. Honesty!! Make it very clear on your first date that you have an unfavourable family background, but you want to be the best you can be, to grow in yiddishkeit and Torah. That you want to raise a good family of proper values. SHOW the woman you are different, don’t just talk about a bad situation. And may Hashem open your mazal for the good and have pity on you that you should meet a good lady understanding of your situatio.
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