I don’t know why my comment was not posted, unless it ran afoul of the YWN thought police!! I’ll try again.
Talking in shul is bad, but it’s not the end of the world. Perhaps we should all just “tend our own gardens”. If somebody is talking and disturbing you, ask him or her to stop.
I, for one, am equally annoyed when people daven so loud that I can’t concentrate. I am also annoyed by the Yeshiva boys and kollel yungerlite who can’t stop “talking in learning” even when davening is going on. I do my best to daven in spite of what is going on and annoying me.
Let’s all stop trying to show how we are holier than those “other people” and just serve Hashem for a change.
(NOTE TO THE THOUGHT POLICE: If this is not mild enough for you, then just forget it)