the outcome of this weeks parshas vayechi is that we can all learn from yosef Hatzadik-who was king over the entire mitzrayim-from his kibud av v’aim of not burying his father yaakov in mitzrayim to prevent him from becoming an avoda zara if he would be burited there.
we can also learn from this weeks parsha that a person cannot run away from his destiny that Hashem has put for him/her. Yosef brought his children to be benched by yaakov & placed them & then yaakov crossed his arms to put his right hand on the child that he saw b’ruach hakodesh should get it even if yosef put the other one on yaakovs right side.
OUTCOME:you can get a bracha from your rav or rebba like yaakov avinu gave to each of his children a bracha perfect for them & their future shevet. but the best way to get the best bracha & help is to go straight to Hashem without a shliach (rebba) between you & Hashem