Reply To: Are the girls causing their own shidduch crisis??

@livingrit No one is “blaming” the girls we are just trying to help them be realistic and practical.

How exactly do you expect the shaddchan to “show you work”? If the shadchan called 10 boys and emailed 15 boys (or their parents) to try to find a shidduch for a girl, does the shadchan need to show you the phone records or an email log to prove it?