If she has multiple issues it will be hard for her to get into a mainstream sem, but I have friends trying to do it for seminary. Everyone needs different things. I have a friend with much similar issues (its actually a bit creepy) and she B”H is going to therapy and from what it seems to me-almost all her issues stem from 1 root and therapy can get rid of over half of them. People who have been maintstreamed there whole life-such as finishing high school in a normal place should definetly go to sem. I don;t think my friend is telling the sem of her issues as B”H they will get better and she knows how judgemental people can be. She says she has made it till now, she can do it again.
But this girl is 16, and I don’t think she will be able to interact on a healthy level with 18 normal mainstreamed girls who B”H most did not get abused and so on….
But that’s just my opinion-who ever listens to that?