also regarding the last comment of frumnotyeshivish .
I would like to quote Yoideah Tzadik nefesh behamtoi.
before we try to heal our neshomo.
we have to heal and take care of our nefesh habehamy.
if we have a dysfunctional spirit our neshomo can not function.
just like we cant serve Hashem if our bodies are not functional.
you cannot take advice of someone bokey in hilchos Shabbos about money matters. only a small percentage of talmidei chachomim understand chochmas hanefesh. its mostly concealed.
the torah always promises schar for the nefesh hbehamy.