JIB; So I guess you’re happy you got some people all worked up on this thread.
Your OP is misleading, there you write a confusing rant about how ur tall, and if she was aware & didn’t have the decency to bridge the gap. That seems to be the point. Then from your later post, it seems that it wasn’t a principle issue, you’re just really into heels, and if a girl doesn’t wear them she is a shlump.
You didn’t indicate in your OP that she wasn’t wearing a nice dress, iow, she wasn’t dressed nicely.
quoting you “I’m asking for is that girl have a little self respect and put on a nice dress and heels for her potential husband.”
So what is it? Is it that she didn’t dress up nicely at all?
or only that she breached your 1st date unspoken lovely heels contract.
If it’s just the heels, tell her on the 2nd date how you absolutely love heels and consider anyone not wearing them, under-dressed or shlumpy. Don’t scare the rest of B’nos Yisroel into thinking it’s mandatory to wear heels on a 1st date or all dates, even when your hiking, or skiing.
I hope you don’t expect your future wife to wake up in the morning wearing a dress, makeup, her shaitel, jewelry, and heels.
JIB; I’m on your side, i’m trying to help you see how ridiculous it sounds. 🙂