I always feel like when I try reading shidduchim somehow or another unless the couple gets engaged someone is hurt.
It almost makes me not want to try!
This is an excellent point.
Ok I seem to be the only female single here.
How old are you?
lol
Isn’t she also supposed to have a professional relationship with her coworkers?
Yes, but it’s a different sort of professional relationship. You show your coworkers pictures of your grandkids, but you don’t show your students or their parents pictures of your grandkids.
This is true, but in many situations (not all) there is still enough of a personal side to it to redt a shidduch, which, IMO is less “personal” (in a certain way) than showing pictures of einiklach.