Reply To: I'm returning to share a story

Thank you all for the kind response.

When R’ Bender told over the story, his point was to show the quality of Rabbeim that Darchei has.

I think that the CR can take something else from this. Different people have different shittos. In some cases, someone may deviate from the norm. This Rebbe showed us it’s better to give up your own chumros than to dare insult someone who holds a different way.

All too often, posters here insult others who see things differently. They are called all sorts of names, and their level of observance is called into question. It’s better to give up your own chumros than to insult people!