“No time in history have women been expected to earn a living so their husbands can learn. It is scandalous! Women have to bare children, raise them, and run a household, which is a full time and exhausting project on its own. Adding to it the responsibility of parnossah is simply not fair to women.”
These days the women have both k’lallos from the eitz hadaas!!
(Although supporting your husband in kollel should not be viewed as a curse, if you you do view it that way obviously it is not for you)