Reply To: Why can't girls stick out in a crowd?

catch yourself- my friend is very tzniyus also in the way she acts, dresses, what she talks about. She’s very refined and got the zechus of finding a bochur to marry as refined as her. From the one sentance I said about it it could seem that it is superficial.

My main question is really, why can bochurim talk on the phone loudly or run in the street and if women do so we are told it is untzuyisdik. It’s doesn’t seem to be equal. Bochurim can act like pigs and we are expected to act like princesses.