T21 – I don’t know about that. I think both sides could call and give the same numbers at any point in the shidduch. The facts are not going to change no matter how many dates the couple has been on. I do not think they ALWAYS tell you to call again. Whoever wants to know calls. I wanted to know for my daughter, so I called. My now son-in-law’s parents did not care so much, so they sent him for the test but did not call themselves, but they could have. This calling again sounds funny.
RQ – Did you have the shadchan (or you yourself) have the other side call to request the same info?