The Queen,
Sorry you are have it wrong.
I hope I do, and I apologize for overreacting. What I was responding to was:
1. Using Little Froggie’s (who works and opened this thread to praise his wife) thread to criticize the kollel lifestyle as objectively wrong.
2. A perceived implication in your responses that men do not pitch in with housework and childcare, particularly kollel men.
3. A perceived implication that women are duped into servitude via the shidduch process, and that their husbands don’t care about their suffering later on.
Am I off base?
Just for the record, I am going on vacation iy”H and my husband is staying home with the family.
That’s great! For the record as well, I work and my wife stays home full time, I am very involved in parenting and housework, and I enthusiastically agree with Little Froggie’s sentiments in this thread. And neither my wife nor I want to take a 2-week vacation solo, and it has nothing to do with lack of trust.