So now that this thread is back again, I see a discussion between OneOfMany and Syag Lchochma about women going to shul in the first place. So I decided to quote the Iggeres Hagra:
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However, he also says:
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so perhaps men shouldn’t go to shul either.
Of course, one could argue that neither of these two statements are applicable to us.