matisyohu28- are you the letter writer by chance?
ok I just guessed, cuz I found it strange that they both use the same words like “Chayos” & b’chlal very similar style of writing. But it is possible.. 2 ppl at a kiddush & 1 says to the other “waddya say, shmulik, how sickening!” etc….
& then they both decide to write letters.. well yes, everything is possible.