sam2 – i didn’t think i was advocating for dishonesty. i agree that you assume a most favorable scenerio, but really it is probably best to just keep your mouth shut with a big, “I really don’t know enough to think anything” hanging over your head. I dont mean you have to pretend you werent robbed, or that the soldier didn’t pull the trigger, but there are so many missing pieces and unknowns (here and elsewhere) that it upsets me to hear conclusions drawn as if they were there when it happened.
unless you were referring to something else?