when a person davens for someone else (be it for a Shidduch or a baby or refuah etc…) you always get answered first. do you know someone who needs a Shidduch? then give her/him a list of other people needing shidduchim to daven for. it always works & the davener is always answered first
Well, in that case I guess we can prove that oilyhair was not davening for her partner, or oilyhair would have been answered first.
But wait, how could both be answered first?
Anyway, this is all narishkeit. It obviously doesn’t work if you are davening for the other person for the specific purpose of being answered first.