CT, it’s not entirely about identity. Some people find the Chinese less attractive, some find them more attractive just as with hair color or any other preference. Assimilating into western culture doesn’t change your appearance.
ZD: I heard Aharon haKohen himself wouldn’t have let his sons marry Ruth 😉
Mdd:
“I would marry Satmar (if she does not require a lot of chumros) or MO (if Halochically observant).”
In other words, no to both.
“Ashkenazi marrying only Ashkenazi? Not good.”
Yes, and there you have it: Ashkenaz marrying only Ashkenaz bad, Sfard marrying only Sfard fine. FFB marrying only FFB bad, BT marrying only BT fine. Further showing that even within Judaism we have our own political correctness code full of double standards just like in the rest of the world.