Reply To: Shidduchim for Jews of color

dovrosenbaum: If any SY marries a ger, they’re out of the community. No exceptions.

They also do not allow gerim to hold membership or have aliyos in their shuls.”

Is it fair to treat the ger tzedek who is 100% Jewish and for whom there is a mitzvah to love him in this way? I understand pushing people away if they dated a goyishe girl and then had her converted for marriage. There are many gerim whose sincerity is so obvious…the lengths they go to, the sacrifices they make. I don’t think many of us could show that commitment.