Syag Lchochma, thanks for the kind words. Yea I guess you’re right one less meal they have to cook.
“I can tell you that most regular nice frum Jewish folks are not good enough for most regular nice frum Jewish folks when it comes to Shidduchim.”
Im sure that exists. So nu…I would say if my kids are inherently not good enough for you dont invite them for dinner either.
No one wants to be around other people who make them feel bad about themselves.