Like I said, with many people if you even hint about trimming hair before a boy is three, they look at you like you’re eating chazer.
Never happened to me. But even if it had, I can’t imagine I’d be as bothered as you seem.
If your problem is with spending thousands of dollars on ridiculous things, you should be commenting on http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/materialism-in-the-frum-world.
If your problem is with going to Meron in Lag Bi’Omer, see http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/headlines-breaking-stories/421597/hagaon-harav-chaim-kanievsky-comments-on-travel-to-meron-for-lag-baomer.html#sthash.GXFD8j39.dpuf.