The second reason that the two teachers should speak, is because I’ve heard of quite a few cases where the chosson is taught one thing and the kallah is taught something else which causes unnecessary tension and confusion. What do you think?
I agree that it’s an issue. I don’t have a solution.
The shidduch crisis is because choosanim are too choosy.
How are you defining “the shidduch crisis”?
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/defining-the-shidduch-crisis