PBA, no need for us to elaborate. I honestly think that for a man to sit there and spout off about childbearing and childbirth and whether or not it is painful, uncomfortable or anything else descriptive about it, other than to say that his wife was the most beautiful when she was pregnant with his child, is a total chutzpah. It is not anything that you can relate to, since you weren’t created to do it (I’ll not speak about the Pregnant Man). I was once two weeks after my due date, carrying a 9 pound plus baby, and my Rov had the ______ to tell me that I had no patience. I’m sure he has no idea how much resentment I still have to this day (the child is 14 years + now), especially since my husband uses his words like a loaded gun to this day. Until you stand in someone else’s shoes, do not judge them – and definitely don’t give your opinion about what it’s like in those shoes either.
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