Reply To: Other solutions to the shidduch crisis

Don’t say that. Some people might believe it (and/or think serious is the same thing as literal).

I don’t get your pushback here. What is so hard for you to understand. If you match up the boys in 12th grade with the girls in 9th grade, it doesn’t work and the government gets mad at us. You need to make sure there are the same number of boys in 12th as girls in 9th.

Just because you don’t like the solution doesn’t mean there isn’t a problem. Your inability to see this makes you look like you have an agenda.