Also some people just wont be happy no matter what. but the shadchanim are horrible. it doesnt make sense that i have to step up for myself and find myself my own shidduch thats why its totally okay for me to talk to guys at least this way i can find someone if not then maybe ill be waiting till im like 30 chasvichallila? (and my rabbi suports my idea and he actually makes events where i can go and meet guys myself.)
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