you’re watching too many movies, in real life there are times either side will stick to their opinion, if my wife and i disagree on which school to send to, and none of us move from our position, do you keep discussing it? at some point someone has to pull rank and make a call.
If that’s the attitude towards a major decision, then there’s trouble in that marriage.
Let me get this straight. If you live in Brooklyn and you want to move to Eretz Yisroel (or Lakewood, or Seattle, or even Vanuatu) and your wife absolutely refuses, are you going to move without her?
Sorry. That’s not the way things happen in my household. After close to twenty years of marriage, Eeees and I have yet to find an issue where there is absolutely no possibility of compromise. And we both respect each other too much to make major life decisions without each other.
And that is real life (at least mine, anyway).
The Wolf