And “working things out through discussion and compromise” IS EXACTLY what we do.
And yet when I said that my wife and I both have equal say in the household back on page 1, you said:
That’s at odds with the way the Torah dictates a marriage is to be run.
Which is it?
In my household we both have equal say because we work things out through discussion and compromise. We agree not to make pre-emptive moves against each other. We agree not to make major life decisions unilaterally. Neither of us would ever dream of “pulling rank” on the either. But you said that that’s counter to the way a marriage is to be run according to the Torah.
So, which is it? Is the way my household is run counter to the way the Torah dictates (in your opinion) or not?
Or am I totally misunderstanding your position — and if so, please explain how.
The Wolf