Kasha, you wrote “clearheaded: I quoted verbatim an explicit Mishna, without offering an interpretation. The interpretation was yours, not mine.” So what what is your point by bringing this Mishna? If your point was to prove that women are not eaual because they are under someone’s reshus, I proved you wrong.
In addition, you keep on stating that it is an explicit posuk in the Torah that a wife is ruled by her husband. It is not.
Maybe the meforshim expound on a certain posuk in the Torah. Which meforshim are you talking about?