clearheaded:
I really think this has been exhausted. We are being repetitive here. This has been all addressed. But for your elucidation, since you seem to be such a nice person, I will reiterate it one final time.
In addition, you keep on stating that it is an explicit posuk in the Torah that a wife is ruled by her husband.
Bereishis 3:16.
Maybe the meforshim expound on a certain posuk in the Torah. Which meforshim are you talking about?
Ramban on Bereishis 3:16
Likutim on the mishna in Kerisus
Torah Temima, Bereishis 3:16, note 22
Mishna Kerisos 6:9
Rambam, Mishneh Torah, Hilchos Ishus 15:20
Kol Tuv, Zeits Gezunt, un ah Gutte Chodesh!