PBA- “My Judaism is not like that. My Judaism is about doing what Hashem wants us to do–that is, what we should
do. And how we should feel, and think. Hashem does not want women to learn gemara–chazal were clear about that.”
I’m sorry, but it is not clear from Chazal that Hashem does not want women to learn Gemara. Have you ever looked up the Halachah in the S”A? Did you know that it says that women receive schar for learning? I don’t know the way G-d works, but logic dictates that G-d would not give reward to women for doing something that He does not want them to do.