this is one of those really bad comments that fans the flames between different hashkafos.
the op (if he wasnt just trying to provoke) was painting a picture that was not a real match to his words. Other people are responding to the picture of boisterous, loud, immodest behavior and those who read the post are hearing it being responded to as it was written.
This happens all the time and makes huge rifts. Case in point, the kugel story.
I hate rifts. i hate hate. i hate people fighting because they will jump on anything someone else says purely because of who said it (not here but in other threads)
***pulling hair out***