Wolfish Musings: that’s what I meant. But I feel people are waiting for this aha moment when you feel mature enough to marry….it doesn’t work that way.
About parnassha: everyone has their own minhag, ideas, and opinions. In some cricles if you don’t support you a crazy, in some you can get a job at 18. PPlus parnassah is on the husband, in Israel it is possible for an 18 year od guy to get a job to support his wife and family at 18.
lilmod: thank you. When I first came on the CR I wrote like that. I assumed from the way sparkly writes, the username, and the way she treats and responds to other posters that she is a 16/17 female. Perhaps it was wrong of me to just assume, but I was sure I was right.
Sparkly: I have finished high school actually, plus age is not a factor in maturity, however you can tell a person’s maturity by the way she/he speaks, writes, and treats other.
You have still not told me exactly why a marriage with 2 humans around the age of 17 and 18 must go wrong and is a bad idea.