Its all relative. I’ve heard that many women like to have a couple for a seuda that they are having boys at so they are not left in an uncomfortable situation… they have someone to talk to while the men talk on the other end of the table. Theres usually not too much fraternizing in this scenario since the bachurim are not usually schmoozing with the wives… So if you’re going to have a meal with another couple- having bachurim is the way to go!
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