Sparkly – I actually was dan l’kaf zchus your Rabbi the whole time and assuming that he didn’t say that it’s okay to not be shomer negiah, and I’m glad that you are now acknowledging it. Being tolerant of others does not have to equal saying that what they are doing is muttar. I am still sorry that you think that he says it’s okay to wear short skirts but not pants. Wearing short skirts is a clear-cut issur and according to some/many/most/all poskim is worse than wearing pants, so I am not mekabel this motzi shem ra about your Rabbi.
What is clear is that you are not a reliable source for quoting your Rabbi, and therefore you should refrain from poskening halacha in “his name” since playing around with Halacha is a serious matter. Unfortunately, I don’t think you are the only one in the Coffee Room who randomly makes definitive Halachic statements without the necessary sources and background. Maybe everyone will be more careful now.